Episode 30: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to share how I don’t want to ever be fake, I don’t want to ever act like everything is so joyful and blissful and perfect in my life, because it’s not. I’ve been up-leveling and changing a lot and collapsing my reality and rewriting all programming and trying to let go of the things that are so ingrained and taught. But I’m going to tell you right now, it’s putting up a fight, it’s been a big fight. I’m in a battle with it myself and here to let it all go and to change that outcome. And if you’re going through that, I just wanted to share with you that it is definitely part of the process. Just know that we’re going to have those ups and downs, and the beautiful thing is, once you can really fully love all parts of yourself, then that’s when we can really have that up-leveling and achieve Christ Consciousness, and that’s what we signed up for, this is what we’re here to do.

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• I was just kind of lying to my bed, thinking about things, and I don’t know if you ever get like this… I don’t know, lately it’s just I know I’ve discovered a lot of truths that I didn’t know before. And it’s made me really blissful and happy and free. But then there’s also this process of… Have you heard of the Death to Ego kind of thing, and your inner child? I’ve been working with my inner child type stuff, and honestly I talked about this before, I didn’t really realize that a lot of the trauma that I went through as a child affects me now. (1:24)

• There’s so many messages in the movies like Interstellar, The Matrix, I even watch Jupiter ascending. There’s a lot of messages in that, I could go on and on with the movies, and it’s fascinating to me. I love going back and watching them with the eyes that I have now… I just felt like talking to you for a minute about just having that pain body in the house sometimes when we rise up and we go through an up-leveling that we’re going to experience this and we’re also going to experience things coming into our reality. (4:40)

• If someone is making you jealous or someone’s making you angry, are someone’s making you… Whatever, if you’re getting an emotional trigger from it, then there’s something going on with you. And if you’re projecting on to those people, then it’s about you and that’s when you need to stop and say, Hey, why am I doing this? What’s it about? And if we could all understand that relationships are about that, we call in what we need. I’m thankful for what happened because now it’s making me really get down on my knees again and go within and get my power back. (9:02)

• Maybe I can help you take that first step to start that journey, to go within, to go look at some of your inner child stuff, you may not even know what that is, go research it. If you feel called or led to do that, if it’s your time, it may not be your time. I always say there’s different actors or different roles in movies, there’s even just extras, it’s like we all have our time here, we’re all here on earth together serving our purpose, and if it’s meant for you to hear or to see something that’s off, then you’ll hear it at the time that you’re supposed to hear it. If we could all understand that everybody’s on their own path, we’re just here to serve and to love one another and to learn from one another, the world would be such a better place if we could all just realize that we’re all in this together. (12:23)

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Episode 29: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to talk to you about that one time that I went to seminary. The reason why I went to seminary is because I went down a path where I just really became like a super Christian, and I wanted to share the gospel. I wanted to share the good news, what I felt was truth at the time. I was just so focused on it, and it really did impact my life in a positive way. But the more that I dove into it, the more I dug out of it… Right? I started getting more connected with my spiritual side, which is kind of our whole purpose in life is to go down that path to seek truth and to find out who we truly are… Then, it just hit me and my reality, my perception just changed, and in that moment I became aware, that there’s not necessarily just the one way…

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•    I went to the Baptist church with my friends, because my closer friends went to the Baptist church, so that’s where I ended up going because I wanted to hang out. And honestly, I was kind of in love with one of the coaches, Coach Roger’s, which is kind of funny, but I was really obsessed with him. (1:60)

•   So quickly in my mind and just the reality that I had just changed, it changed what it felt like in an instant, but it really wasn’t. It was because I had been doing so much seeking and so much… just like different bottle studies or volunteering. I was doing a lot of different things in the spiritual world, and so it kind of just felt like it happened at once, but it was through my daily activity. (2:59)

•    I even actually started looking at Buddhism at one point. I started looking at a book called beginner’s book of Buddhism, and it was very interesting to me. I was like, Oh my gosh, I want to be a Buddha, because it was very cool. And I always thought I was going to go to hell if I looked at anything about the Buddha, because I thought… Honestly, I thought Buddhism was, I bow down to the Buddha and then I thought I would go to hell. (6:27)

•    I discovered something else, it’s like you keep discovering new things, the more that you ask to see… I always say, have eyes to see and ears to hear, and when you do that, your level of awareness increases. Some of the things that you may have looked at in the past, if you look at today, you’ve changed, your eyes have changed, your ears of changed, you can hear different things, and so based on what you become aware of. I just think that’s so cool, because now I look at stuff and I’m like, Oh my gosh, that is so amazing, and I didn’t even see that before, but I see it now. (8:52)

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Episode 28: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to talk to you about being a parent. We are all wanting to be the best parents we can be for our children, trust yourself and know you are the parent you’re meant to be. Each one of us has their own purpose, their own path, and that maybe we need to unlearn some of the stuff that we’ve been taught and move into a different reality together, and if we do that collectively and consciously seek that together, then we can create a whole new reality, and we can raise our children and do things differently moving forward.

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•   I wasn’t or still am not the mom that is able to go to every function or game. I’m not the mom who knows their schedules all the time, they tell me homework assignments, they know, and I’m not the type of mom who is always telling them what they should be doing except maybe clean in their rooms.   (1:39)

•   The most important thing I’ve learned is that we show love, respect and kindness in all that we do. One of my favorite songs, Nobody’s Perfect by Hanna Montana. I do love that song. Nobody’s perfect. It’s so true, I’m over trying to be perfect, I’m into living in the moment and just roll in with who I am. Instead, I’m into understanding that I determined my value and worth, my daughters are exactly where they should be, that’s the one should they should do. (2:13)

•   I used to just really kinda go to sleep at night and be thinking… Why did I say that to my daughters? Why did I do that? Why did I do this? Why did I lose my temper and be really kind of stressed out about it, and go to sleep thinking about it. And then wake up and then it would be okay. It would be the next day and I’d start over again. (3:14)

•   Each one of us has their own purpose, their own path, and that maybe we need to unlearn some of the stuff that we’ve been taught and move into a different reality together. And if we do that collectively and consciously seek that together, then we can create a whole new reality, and we can raise our children and do things differently moving forward and teach them how to use their creativity in their minds and let them be themselves instead of just forcing them to do certain things. (6:14)

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Episode 27: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to talk about, how sometimes when we people watch, we tend to start criticizing others or start analyzing them. Like, why do they have that on, or why are they wearing their hair like that. I just want to bring in a little awareness to how we look at others, and how that is a reflection of ourselves. Let’s remember we’re all apart of the one, and we’re all here having a human experience, so let’s all just embrace ourselves and stop freaking judging one another.

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•     I used to look at people and think, Why do they wear those clothes, why do they show on their butt, or why are they showing their breasts or, why are they doing that? But you know what, I did that because I was projecting, because I felt insecure about my body, my body image. (2:20)

•     I was feeling insecure when I saw people wearing clothing like that, and so that was just me projecting my insecurities, as a shadow within myself, that I’ve now learned about and I have been working on loving all parts of me and loving myself exactly as I am, and if I want a different body image,  I create that. (2:37)

•     The next time you’re out and you question why somebody is wearing a certain outfit, or why they have their hair purple, or why they have a nose piercing, or have… I’m trying to think, why they do whatever they do, then you’re judging them. (3:42)

•     We’re all here having a human experiences, we’re all just embracing ourselves, trying to find ourselves, and I think it would be way more fun if we would just stop freaking judging one another. (4:34)

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Episode 26: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. I’m excited because I have a friend on with me today. I met her in a Vitiligo group that I belonged to, her name is Danielle Wheeler and she’s going to share with you a little bit about her journey with the Vitiligo, making it relatable to anybody that struggles with confidence or self-esteem or anything like that as well. We’re going to share our stories and have a great conversation about Vitiligo and her children’s book called ‘I’ve Got Spots’.

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•   Okay, and at that point, it was literally just a couple of spots again, the armpit and on my hands, and we’re about to move. And so I was like, Yeah, sure, okay, whatever. And I’m not like a medicine person, I don’t even like taking ibuprofen, so putting groups and creams on my skin. (2:37)

•   They can get it at 60, and it can start with one spot and it never moves and it stays the same for years before it rapidly spreads and it’s crazy. It’s Vitiligo Awareness Month, and I’ve been going back through photos and it’s crazy to see photos of myself, even like six years ago, even from last year, my patterns have changed so much even in a year. And then I think is what’s interesting is then the part with no pigment, then we’ll start getting pigment in it, I feel like when I get the Sun, which is interesting.  (5:44)

•   I like that because one thing you said about the reason why you wrote the book is to bring awareness, especially even for kids. Because when I was a child, there wasn’t anything like that, so I thought there’s something really wrong with me, and so it definitely may be even more insecure. But now that you have such a cute Book out there to explain it, even children that don’t have it, parents buying that book to allow them to be able to bring awareness to their child.  (9:01)

•   No matter what your journey is, no matter what you’ve created in your reality that it’s there for a reason. Once you can step outside of thinking it’s so wrong and step outside of that and realize, it’s actually so right. And it’s exactly what you needed to do. Write a book or whatever it is that you are called to do. What you are inspired to do?  (26:06)

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Episode 25: Do you know that when you start to call in your higher self, your higher mission, then things will change in your reality? I’m going through that right now. I’m changing everything in my reality, and it’s kind of wild, but if you’re aware of it, then you can embrace it and run with it and realize that you’re doing that and that it’s going to all work out in the end. It is going to be a beautiful thing because you’re going to actually be doing what you came here to do.

Joseph Campell has a great quote about bliss; “Follow your bliss.
If you do follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you.” What’s your bliss? Let’s take a look at that today. Ready?

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• When you just have that passion and that excitement, that bliss, and you’re just running towards that goal and you’re just like, I’m doing this, and you just totally believe in yourself, then you can see yourself doing it. (3:32)

• You bring yourself back down to what your subconscious belief is, and it’s really fascinating to me to learn that and once you become aware of it, then you can unlearn that you can re-train your subconscious brain, and that is cool because then you can now consciously start to consciously seek that into your life. (4:13)

• Let’s say you have a dream in your heart, you had this excitement or a desire to do it, and then all of a sudden your heart and then your mind is like, No, you can’t do that. You’re not capable of doing that. That’s not true. That’s when you don’t let your mind out beat your heart, and that’s when you bring them together because you need to realize that whatever that excitement was, there’s a reason you got excited about that. (6:53)

• So what you want to do is, you want to take that belief and you’ve listened, and you know what it is that you want, then you imagine it, you visualize it, you see it play out in your mind, and then you want to connect your mind and your heart, connect by visualizing, you have the heart, the feeling, the belief that you can do it, so you connect it. (10:13)

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Episode 24: June is Vitiligo Awareness Month, and since I have Vitiligo, this is my current reality. I want to be an advocate and bring awareness to what it is and how it affects people. I’m happy that it is being talked about, because hopefully it can help people to not have to suffer so much from it, and then shift perception and know that we’re all different and we’re all made in the image of God, unique in our own special ways.

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•    I used to look at my skin and just be like, Why can’t I just be normal? Can I just have normal skin where I could just wear shorts and not have to wear spray tan all the time and cover it up, I never felt comfortable. (4:07)

• So the day she left me, it left me, the vitiligo, the stress and the anxiety and the hatred and the discussed and the sadness, it just left. And from that moment on, I’ve just embraced it and thankful for it now because I can help other people realize that sometimes we get lost in our minds and we think that something are so terrible and it’s really not. (5:34)

• Many things that we compare and look at in our society has an image that we all tend to think the way that we be, but it’s not necessarily the truth, each of us is the truth. And so that’s what I’m here to share with you, if you’re having some issues or you think that there’s something wrong with you, just know that there’s so much more right with you. (9:02)

• Guard your mind, focus on what you want, try to love all parts of you and embrace what you can’t change. Enhance what you can, and just really try to take those steps daily to live a happier, more joyful life by loving yourself. And then what’s going to happen is when you start doing that, then you’re going to start taking more steps in the direction of more confidence. (12:21)

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Episode 23: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. I’m excited that you’re here with me today because I have a very special guest, Scott Bloom. Scott is a veteran comedian and television personality who has built a reputation as the “go-to” choice for business humor, having hosted hundreds of events for companies such as FedEx, Ford, IBM, MetLife, PepsiCo, Pfizer, and Verizon. In addition to his work as a highly respected emcee and comedic keynote speaker, he has had a successful career in television. Scott has been featured on Comedy Central numerous times, and was the host of his own weekly VH1 series. Scott recently co-hosted a national simulcast of the Grammy Awards from the Palace Theater.  He currently lives in Los Angeles.

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Episode 22: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. I’m excited that you’re here with me today because I have a very special guest, Stasia Bliss. She’s an amazing friend of mine, and she’s been super helpful in my journey and transformation. Stasia is a live force management specialist and a conscious mental health educator. And she’s going to talk to us about another viewpoint on depression today, utilizing over two decades of wisdom and studies into science and the process of a spiritual awakening. She is here with us to share her insights on another way that we can look at what depression could be and how as a species, we are only beginning to understand the potential of what is called negative emotions might be about.

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Episode 21: The reason why I titled this episode, the episode that got lost under the seat, is because I recorded one and I was putting it in my recorder, because I like to record in my car, and it fell between my seat, underneath the glider and underneath the carpet, probably there forever. Afterwards, I sort of became the observer and just stepped back and did not really freak out or react, but just kinda laughed about it. I think what I was being taught here is just to let it go, that things always work themselves out, and we don’t necessarily know why that we’re experiencing whatever is going on, but if we can just step back and become aware and say, Okay, everything is going to work out.

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•    I guess to be shown signs or messages or however you hear your intuition, God universe, whatever you might want to call it. However you receive that. Then you can ask for more guidance, and one way that I’ve found that I get more guidance is just by having meditation or prayer and asking for help. (4:42)

•   Actually, what that’s about is following your illuminated path, your guidance, your bliss, what makes you happy, what you’re feeling at peace about. It’s going in that direction, and then realizing that you don’t really need outside things, you don’t need necessarily outside advice to make big decisions. (7:13)

•   So, I just flat out ask. I want a divine direct message on what I should do. And then I went to a party the next day at my friend’s house, and she just looked at at me, and it was like a few hours into the party, we were in the pool, and then she looked at me, and she was like, Victoria, I had a dream about you last night. And I was like, Oh, you did. And she’s like, Yeah. I had a dream that you had your book called You are the magic pill, and you were doing a podcast. (8:47)

•   That was like the ego or my old story popping into my mind, taking control of me, and I was just like, I can’t do it, I can’t. And I just started crying, I was crying so hard, like ugly cry, you wouldn’t even believe it. I just kept crying, I don’t know how to explain to you, I don’t know if you’ve ever felt like that, but it was just like my whole body was just overtaken by fear and just lack of belief for myself. (10:30)

•   I had to let go and just let the inspiration flow through me and let the message come through me, and so that’s what I did, and I ended up recording 10 episodes and one night I stayed up like all night. So I’m just here to tell you, if you are on a journey and you feel like your path really isn’t illuminated, you feel like you don’t know what direction you want to go in, just be still and listen and take control of your thoughts and listen to your heart, and tap within to that power within you. (13:24)

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