Episode 41: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. I’m so excited that you’re here with me today as I welcome back my dear friend Stasia Bliss to help us welcome in 2022 as our authentic selves.

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SHOWNOTES:

•  And I think it’s part of the process too. We have to learn to identify ourselves in our environment, but then as we grow up, we start to realize a lot of those programming, they aren’t what we were truly brought here to express, so we do this process of peeling a lot of that off to reveal who we really are. Yeah, and I think that that’s really cool because that is what we’re here to do is just to discover that truth. But some people never do. And I think that that’s why you and I are here to help people awaken to the truth.  (02:14)

•  If you did that in your career and in your relationship and in your personal growth, how does that feel? Yeah, I think that that is a lot to process because you can look at your last year and have a lot of regrets and hate yourself, and that’s not good. But maybe just look back at it and be like, What could I do now? That would make fulfillment better. But like you said, Love what you already did, love the whole last year, and just know that this year is going to be just another part of your development, opening up and flowering. Like you said, and discovering that authentic self.  (06:26)

•  And I guess for some people, maybe they just want to keep doing the same thing every day, all day, and maybe that’s what their mission is, to do in their experience. But then for the other people that are having a longing, they really seek more and desire more. Yeah, mix it up a little bit. I started doing that more last year, and it does really make a difference, you’re like, Oh, I didn’t even know I’d like to do that, and… Oh wow, I didn’t even know that existed. That reminds me of what you focus on, you really do see, it’s so cool because that can be with everything. Definitely, and some people really do love where they’re at, people are really living with the thing they have set up, and I have all the honor in the world for that, that’s a beautiful place to be in. And for some people, it lasts a really long time, and some people, that’s a fleeting experience. And so I think that’s a beautiful thing to cherish too, but yeah, if you are on a journey of, Hey, I want to do something different, or I need some change in my life or I have been in repeating patterns, there’s just a lot out there. Like I said, just bring the curiosity along and go on a journey of synchronicity.  (09:50)

•  If one thing’s going to go up, something else is going to go down. So to prepare for that, by being okay with those helpless moments for a minute and trying to reap their beauty too. Exactly, yeah, because when I say no pain, no gain, and you really do fall to your knees to rise back up, right? And so I totally agree with that. You got to kinda break that all down and get pushed, and then rise up again, and then maybe fall down again and rise up because your just learning to walk again, right? Well, my favorite thing that I feel that people don’t realize in this world, you and I have talked about this, is that the heart muscle is just like any muscle, if we want to grow it strong, we have to be willing to do the exercises of love and expansion, and also the pain of the heartbreak. That’s just like the pain of… If you’re doing weights every day, you actually rip those muscles in order to grow them, in order to make them stronger and longer, and by using our heart muscle in our life and really putting our hearts into what we do, whether it’s a person in a relationship or a job, or our workout. And if something fails, or we get hurt, that’s also part of the growth, we actually are sort of wanting to grow in that way, and I know that’s a tricky one for some people, like I don’t want a heartache, but in a way we do.  (13:34)

ABOUT STASIA: BLISS ~ MIDWIFE OF CHANGE

Stasia is a Master Tantric, Relationship Coach, Healer, Empath, Oracle and Mystic. Her studies and experiences have taken her around the globe and into the heart of Ancient Tantric and Yogic teachings as well as deep into the heart of the plant medicine journey as both an herbologist as well as a Shaman. Healing modalities include Akashic record/fielding work; Emotion Code; Past Life Scan and Ancestral lineage integration; kundalini yoga/meditation/hatha yoga cleansing practices and detoxification; DNA upgrades and mental sheath recalibration; womb healing; Internal Alchemy; Belvaspata Angelic Light/Frequency healing; Qi Vesta Spiritual Oneness consulting; Inner Family and Family Mandala integration and Especially Life-force management and recalibration.

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Episode 37: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. On today’s episode today I want to share with you comments about a video that I watched last year, and it was about the art of being yourself. I know I’ve talked about this before, about being your authentic self and finding out who you truly are. When somebody says, go love yourself. just go do it, just be yourself. Sometimes you’re like, How do I do that? What do you mean? How do I love myself? What if I just don’t like myself? So I’m going to share with you a list of things that we can use to remind us, to guide us to love ourselves. Remember that you are here for a reason, you are living here with a purpose, you may not exactly know what it is yet, but regardless, you are living it.

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SHOWNOTES:

•  And so if you find yourself comparing, wherever it might be, a success that you think that somebody else is having, or body image too, or maybe you view their life as happier. I don’t know, only you know that that’s a shutout within yourself, and so I just encourage you to love that part about you and to realize that you are beautiful just the way you are. Number three, your intuition will never fail, if you learn to listen.  (3:42)

•  if you don’t want to be where you are, then make the decision to not be where you are, you are. The only reason you are is because you desire to be. That is something that I’m dealing with right now. And maybe you are too, but that is the truth, we create our own reality, and it might be based on something from your childhood, something that you were taught and that you don’t realize is keeping you from fulfilling what you really want to do, and becoming aware of that is key to be able to break through those upper limits. And like I said, I am really in the trenches of that right now, going back to childhood stuff, realizing that there are some things that are being uncovered there that are playing out still in my reality today, just an old story that I need to re-write and I’m in the process of doing that. So definitely know that you can break free from your old stories too.  (5:41)

• And sometimes it’s not easy to do. It takes discipline and dedication, and it’s not going to happen overnight, right? And that’s the one thing that I really want to share with you is that sometimes you’re going to slip, sometimes you’re going to fall back. It’s like whenever you’re trying to work out or you’re on a weight management program, then maybe you slip back a little bit, just try not to beat yourself up so much and realize that it’s a process and you’re uncovering some stuff here. You’re trying to fall in love with all parts of you. Some things are being shown and sometimes it can make you have some emotions come up. And that’s okay. You feel all the feels and work through those emotions. (8:22)

• We’re not here to be lost in fear and negativity, we’re just not meant to do that. We’re here to have human experiences and to wake up and realize that we do not have to live in fear. I love that saying, that I’ve seen on an image before, where fear is false evidence appearing real. It is because it’s just something that we make up, something that you make up in your head, I make a ban on my head and we just tend to say, what if this, what if that? And it’s not even true. And we get so consumed with the fear and the negativity because of the society that we live in, but we truly can turn that around, but we need to know that it’s a process, and to be gentle with yourself. So falling in love with yourself is a process, if you’re not already there. (11:08)

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