Episode #49: Welcome to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. In today’s episode, I am thrilled to have my bestie Richele Batt-Kramer as a guest once again. Richele is a highly respected dating and relationship coach who runs the Coaching Closet. Together, we delve into our personal histories of relationships and share our experiences that have helped shape us into the individuals we are today. We firmly believe that every moment in life is significant, and it’s essential to embrace the journey and cherish every experience, good or bad. Join us as we explore the value of learning from past relationships and the importance of living life to the fullest.

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EPISODE TRANSCRIPT:

0:03 Thanks for tuning in to You Are the Magic Pill.

0:06 If you are ready to realize that you are the magic pill, then come on a heroic journey with me to remember who you truly are to activate that power found within.

0:17 Hi, and welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill.

0:21 Thank you so much for tuning in with me today.

0:23 I’m super excited because I have my friend Richelle with me today.

0:29 Hi, Richelle.

0:29 Hey, girl.

0:30 Hey, I’m so excited to be here with you in the big D.

0:35 That’s right.

0:36 Oh, my God, girl is in Houston.

0:38 Meet the big D so awesome.

0:40 Like this time we’ve been together a few times and you’ve been to Houston in my closet and we’ve recorded severally and been together like severally.

0:51 And now I’m here in your home, your gorgeous home in Dallas.

0:55 That’s it.

0:55 And so reunited and then it feels so good.

1:02 Ok.

1:03 I’m, I’m not a singer.

1:04 I’m more of a dancer as you know.

1:06 Oh, well, you know, I’m a singer and a dancer.

1:08 I know you love to dance.

1:11 It’s, it’s all, it’s so lovely.

1:13 It’s so lovely.

1:14 I just had to set the stage for everyone because Victoria is sitting here drinking out of a mason jar and in her gorgeous living room with all her flowers and candles lit and of course there’s a mower going.

1:27 Come on, dude, I want go take a break.

1:30 I made this best cup of coffee for me.

1:32 I’m tired today after driving up here.

1:34 But yeah, we are here together.

1:36 It’s been a little over a year and I distinctly remember the last episode we recorded together.

1:40 Oh, do you tell?

1:42 Well, I had just been through a massive break up but I think it was Valentine’s Day.

1:46 It was not pretty breaking up.

1:49 It’s hard to do.

1:50 But now we can have a lot to do.

1:53 I was like, ok, let’s just talk about the lessons you can learn and the breaking up is necessary to do.

1:58 Oh, yeah.

1:59 We were just talking about breakdowns, lead to breakthroughs and that’s one thing that my clients go through all the time.

2:05 Oh, my God.

2:06 You’ve had some changes in your life too recently.

2:09 But I mean, I met the love of my life after that break up.

2:12 Awesome.

2:13 I had no idea what the future held for me and we’re about to celebrate one year together.

2:18 We got married after 95 days, which is insane.

2:21 And I got to be in the wedding.

2:24 I know.

2:25 Yeah, that was fun and cold.

2:27 I thought I was actually going to die.

2:28 Did I tell you this?

2:30 I don’t know if I told you this.

2:31 But while I was standing out there shivering half to death, I was clenching my teeth.

2:36 I was shaking so severely because I get cold in like 65.

2:40 You know, and it was, what was it, like 50.

2:44 No, no, no.

2:44 It had to be way low.

2:46 It just drop so much.

2:47 It was so low.

2:48 It felt like 30.

2:49 Ok.

2:50 So I’m standing there and I was like, thinking in my mind, I’m like, would anybody notice if I just took off and ran into the building?

3:00 I’d be like, oh, what is she doing now?

3:03 At least three times.

3:05 And yes, I actually did that.

3:07 I’m like, girl, you can’t do that.

3:08 I had to talk myself down.

3:10 I was like, you can’t do that.

3:11 Thank you.

3:12 That the love is real because like that day was insane.

3:15 It was glorious.

3:16 It was raining all around the venue and then we moved everything inside and the day before it was so gorgeous.

3:22 I know.

3:22 And then that cool friend came and it was like, ok, everything’s inside and we thought it was going to rain and then they’re like 20 minutes before, but your wedding was so gorgeous.

3:31 Oh my God.

3:31 It was always worth it to do it outside.

3:33 So I’m like, I mean, it was, you can’t think about the people and I don’t want to make you feel badly about that.

3:39 I just thought it was funny.

3:40 That I had the actual thought of running away.

3:42 I would have never done that or would I, I don’t know.

3:44 I didn’t, I feel like you’ll never have a runaway bride to be the runaway bride bride.

3:49 I was like, wait, where is she going?

3:51 I was so thankful that my dress had pockets.

3:53 I was my hands in the pockets.

3:54 But anyway, got one hand in my pocket.

3:58 The other one’s giving up peace out, peace out.

4:01 So yeah, we got married in 95 days and then had a wedding.

4:04 That was so awesome.

4:05 I’m so happy for you.

4:06 Y’all are perfect together.

4:07 You have a lot of joy, which is your favorite thing to say.

4:11 Yes and y’all are great.

4:13 So it took you a little bit of a journey and a process to get there and I don’t know why this popped in my head.

4:20 This is kind of negative, but some people might judge you for getting married.

4:24 So I got the hate and the love, ok?

4:28 I was just thinking about this.

4:30 I think it was yesterday or today.

4:31 It was like you find out who your friends are when you’re going through a real tragedy.

4:36 Like divorce.

4:37 People always say they find out who your friends are and then you find out who your friends are when you do something kind of like off culture norms, like very, really fast or you’re really happy or something.

4:48 You know, when you have something really spectacular like that in your life.

4:51 It’s not, it’s not the narrative you’re not supposed to be.

4:56 You don’t, no one really does that.

4:58 And I was like, thinking about that, I was like, you find out like people are like, no, no, like get in line, get, get back within the matrix, you know, kind of being as like you really find out people like, yeah, because people don’t necessarily come out and say it’s kind of like they give you the side eye kind of thing or you hear from other people, they’re saying this about you, you need to like, you need to kind of keep it on the down low.

5:22 You need to kind of, you know, whatever.

5:24 It’s different.

5:24 It’s weird.

5:25 But I’m like, we’re just like, we are both totally in, we both totally new and we are doing this.

5:30 We waited our whole lives for this.

5:32 We’re 40 because I went in, right.

5:34 It was crazy.

5:35 And I never really understood that before because I had never experienced it before.

5:39 I wanted to experience it before.

5:40 And I thought, oh, this must be what it is.

5:43 But no, that one, he’s the only guy in the world.

5:47 Not like no, because when you know, he’s the right guy, you know, not the right guy because he had a four right wonder have I been struck by lighting?

5:56 I’m not sure.

5:58 Oh, hell no.

5:58 Like if you’ve been struck by lightning, you know, So, that’s what it is.

6:02 Right.

6:02 It’s like you don’t have to wonder.

6:04 So that’s the feeling, you know, that I got married.

6:07 My first marriage when I was 19, I wait, wait, wait, that’s the first one.

6:12 And then my second one I got married when I was 24.

6:14 The 19 didn’t last at all because that was not even meant to be.

6:17 But the second one I met my ex and we got married within nine months.

6:23 So we met, moved to Austin within like a few months.

6:27 And then, we got married in all, within nine months.

6:30 So I’ve been there and done that too and some people might say, well, where did that end up?

6:36 Or?

6:36 How’d that go?

6:37 I’m like, well, it actually went really well because I was married for 21 years.

6:41 Was it all wonderful and perfect?

6:43 No.

6:44 Is any relationship?

6:45 No.

6:45 But do I have lots of good memories?

6:48 Yes.

6:48 And do I have two beautiful daughters?

6:50 Absolutely.

6:51 That I would never ever trade any of those experiences for what I have now.

6:56 So it was totally worth it.

6:57 And to me that’s equal success no matter if it lasted a lifetime or 21 years or if it lasts two years, one year, whatever it is, the experience that you’re having and you’re living in the moment and you’re just going and you’re following your heart.

7:11 And I think that’s beautiful.

7:12 I think it’s beautiful and I think that the people that have an issue with it is because they don’t know how to let go and follow their own heart.

7:18 Right.

7:19 And maybe they wish that they would do that.

7:22 Maybe they can’t even see that, but it’s their projection that is coming on to you as judgment, but whatever.

7:28 That’s right.

7:29 What I’ve learned is that I’ve really have learned, like, probably 97.5% not to take things personal.

7:37 That’s pretty, where did you get that statistic?

7:39 Do you do in your head?

7:41 Just?

7:41 Wow, it’s pretty impressive to be honest because I’m like, wait, what was the percentage?

7:45 97.5%?

7:46 Ok.

7:47 Got it because I do still take things personal sometimes and I get my feelings hurt because I’m a human being.

7:51 Well, of course, we’re all learning.

7:52 We’re not like 100% like enlightened like that, you know, we’re in the process, right?

7:57 But you know, other people, they don’t see us as we are, they see us as they are, right?

8:02 They see us through their own lens, right?

8:04 Their own experiences and their own knowledge and wisdom.

8:06 And so it’s like, ok, if you want to see me that way, that’s fine.

8:10 So it’s like I try to take it personal because oh yeah, because you don’t understand, I mean, they don’t know, they don’t know, I forgive them for, they know not what they do.

8:18 They don’t know and, and we don’t know sometimes like when we’re having these thoughts, we don’t know either because we’re only looking from our lands.

8:26 So, yeah.

8:27 So it’s like, ok, I mean, we’re all just doing what we think is best at the time.

8:31 I look back, you know, 2, 3, 4 or five years ago and think, wow, I would make completely different decisions now because I’m a different, I’m different.

8:39 I’m wiser.

8:39 I’m, you know, hopefully we’re all growing it a certain time.

8:42 But, you know, you just have to follow your heart.

8:45 I think it’s really, really smart to be that way.

8:48 So, yeah, I think as far as your relationship goes, your marriage goes, there are, sometimes it’s like, I mean, you can’t go back and say I would have done things differently because would you have?

8:56 No, no, at that time you probably wouldn’t have and you don’t have that opportunity.

9:01 And do you regret becoming the person through that experience that you are now?

9:05 No, of course not.

9:07 So, it’s like, ok, that relationship is not.

9:09 I don’t like to look at it as a failure.

9:11 I like, no, not at all.

9:12 Completed relationships that you can learn lessons from.

9:16 And so people are living in way too much shame over.

9:19 Oh, I have a failed marriage and that you get to the societal teaching that so if we can just look at like, you know, these are lessons we can learn and use them as building blocks to become our best selves.

9:30 That’s like, so much freedom.

9:32 So, yeah.

9:33 Yeah.

9:33 So, that life and be in the moment more and let go of the outcome if it’s going to last forever.

9:38 Right.

9:38 Absolutely.

9:39 Well, tell me about yourself and like the last year, what’s happened in your life?

9:44 The different changes.

9:44 I know you got some coming up.

9:46 What do you want to share how much time we got?

9:49 No, I don’t know.

9:50 I mean, I’ve been in the depths of hell for a while, but I’ve also had some joyful moments, but I’m about to do a series over a bunch of episodes about the journey.

9:59 But yeah, I just, I’ve gone through a lot of emotions and had a lot of breakthroughs and experiences and, you know, I’m still really happy and where I’m at, you know, now I’m happy tomorrow.

10:11 I’ll not be sad, but I, I’m happy and, you know, I hold on to that moment when I’m happy.

10:16 I really enjoy it and I feel it and then I know I’m learning the process of when I’m sad.

10:22 That that’s ok too.

10:23 That, that’s part of the process and to be sad and to love that part too.

10:28 And so that’s what I’m excited to share about in the upcoming episodes.

10:32 But I’m having a new job exploring that, going in a new direction, going to learn some new things that I needed to learn like 20 years ago.

10:40 But, hey, don’t live in regret ok.

10:42 Don’t live in shame.

10:43 Like there’s that shame voice.

10:45 Right.

10:45 I should have learned that.

10:47 I should have, I hate when people should all over me and, oh my God, shit all over ourselves.

10:51 I shit in your pants.

10:53 I should, I did, I did.

10:56 I’m shameful now, 12 years ago, I’m in the same boat as you with that because I’m going back to school.

11:01 Oh, yeah.

11:01 That’s all, it was more like three years ago, but I’m going back to get my master’s degree and that’s all I can become a therapist.

11:07 But, yeah, girl, I think there’s no time like the present.

11:10 So who cares about all that?

11:12 I should have done this back then because you wouldn’t have, I wouldn’t have, I still, I still don’t just to get, no, I’m in the, I’m definitely in the process.

11:21 I’m gonna finish my, I’m working on a life coach certification and I’m so happy about it.

11:26 I started reading about it and like, actually doing it, like taking that first step of doing it.

11:30 It’s the hardest thing for me and on the face of this planet now, I’m going to say it’s the easiest thing for me to ever do is to take that first step and to do what I actually want to do and to believe that I actually can’t do it like I can do it, I can do anything I want and no matter what my story, old story was and so, but I started to read it.

11:49 It’s called live strategies code.

11:51 It’s so perfect for me.

11:52 And you’re going to understand why?

11:53 Because it talks about like the left brain, right brain hemisphere, two sides to the story kind of thing.

11:58 It’s not hilarious because that’s like the voice of reason.

12:02 And I always see two sides to the story, two sides to the coin, two sides to everything and queen of that.

12:08 I know.

12:08 Right.

12:09 So how funny that I got guided to that particular certification.

12:14 It’s not a coincidence, you know what?

12:16 It’s crazy that we do, we put off things.

12:20 I saw this meme or something about like, oh wow.

12:23 I’ve been putting off that one chore for like six months and it took me 15 minutes to do it.

12:27 Yeah, because it seems daunting or it seems scary or it seems whatever it’s like in whatever we have a block about it.

12:33 Yeah.

12:34 It’s like, oh, wow.

12:35 Like this is actually could be enjoyable, you know, and then it’s like whenever you’re doing it, like what we’re talking about and then just release that.

12:43 It took you that long to do it and just be glad that you’re actually doing it now.

12:46 And that way you can just fully step into the present moment and then get it done and move on and be who you came to be, which reminds me about this thing.

12:54 This is so crazy.

12:56 I went to get my lashes done this morning.

12:58 I told you and I was supposed to go on Saturday, but I didn’t feel well.

13:01 So I canceled it and then I went, she had an opening this morning and this happened two years ago, the same thing I had a bluey appointment that I was going to go to see her about a year and a half ago.

13:12 And I went and then I opened up my eyes and I saw this most beautiful lady.

13:18 I remember this.

13:19 I remember this.

13:19 Yes.

13:20 Yes.

13:20 I saw this most beautiful lady and I thought to myself, wow, she is so beautiful.

13:25 And she’s a life coach and she has a podcast.

13:28 She’s so beautiful.

13:30 I just think she’s just amazing.

13:33 And I’ve told my boyfriend that Chris and he was like, I bet she thought the same thing about you, which I thought was so adorable.

13:40 And another time I ran into her and then we almost met up, we set up an appointment.

13:45 I had another time that I woke up and she was there in the last place she was there at the same time.

13:51 Flukey.

13:52 Ok.

13:52 And then we set up an appointment to meet and then her husband surprised her with Cozumel trip and then we set up another appointment and then we just didn’t meet this morning.

14:00 I went, opened my eyes and that lady was sitting there.

14:04 Oh my gosh.

14:05 Ok.

14:05 So are you going to meet her?

14:07 And I said, well, we have to meet and she said, yes, we do here.

14:12 We have to me.

14:13 Ok.

14:14 So there’s like I said, there’s no, oh wait.

14:15 Oh yeah.

14:16 But let me just tell you what the reflection is on that.

14:18 That is me.

14:20 That is me.

14:20 Like you are supposed to step into that.

14:22 Yes.

14:23 And, and now that you’ve started this life coaching journey, she’s got time known.

14:28 It’s just like right time is, is now, right.

14:31 Right.

14:31 The vortex.

14:32 I’ve had it in the vortex this whole time.

14:34 And now I’m actually stepping into that power and she showed up again.

14:39 So each time I step into that power, she shows up.

14:42 Isn’t that so awesomely?

14:43 You, you just kind of manifested her back into your life.

14:46 And so now it’s time like you just have to know like this is that, that’s me, it is my destiny.

14:51 I can do this.

14:52 So stay in that high, right?

14:53 You know, like I already believe that I can and I believe that I am and everybody can do that, which is so awesome and that’s what you’re doing.

15:02 And you know, it all goes back to following your bliss, following what’s in your true heart and like, you know, your true hearts desire.

15:10 And just like when you, you met Micah, you long to get married, you long to have that relationship.

15:16 You wanted to find your soulmate, you wanted to find your partner.

15:20 That was like your mission and you didn’t want to settle, then, you know, you went through the process.

15:25 So what people don’t see on the other side is that you did all the work, you went through the process of calling in the world, you did all of that and then you may have showed up same thing, just like, wow, that’s so cool.

15:40 Yeah, that’s what people don’t know, is like, well, I actually coach the program in the one.

15:45 So, you know, this, but I know that we’re going to put this out on my podcast and your so like, it’s a process of releasing old toxic ties and soul ties and resentment in the past and learning why, you know, you might have been sucker.

15:59 And so that’s the process and then like, setting a very bold intention of where you’re going.

16:04 And from that you use the law of attraction to walk into the future that you want for yourself.

16:10 And like a lot of people just follow on social media and they see like, oh, she just met this guy and married him in three months, but you don’t understand this work has been going on for like three or four years that I’ve been doing.

16:21 So, it’s not like it just happened, you know, like you see these, I’m into like, you know, seeing the memes and things.

16:28 It’s like people say, oh, she’s so lucky, like, and they don’t feel the work you put in for you know, the blood sweat and tears and it’s emotional work becoming a coach.

16:36 At least the program I went through, like, you have to go through the program yourself with a peer coach, with mentor coaches and like, you’re actually going through the personal development yourself.

16:45 So you’re going through it yourself and changing and growing and then you get to become certified.

16:51 It’s not like you just, you know, take a 20 minute course and you know, they slap you a patient.

16:56 So I mean, I, I was telling someone about that the other day and I was like, man, I thought, you know, I’m gonna take this course and it’s like a nine month course that I’ve taken two of them.

17:05 I actually one of them twice because I didn’t finish the first time because COVID and all that I remember.

17:09 Yeah, but I go through it and I was like, God, I didn’t think I was going to sit here and cry and like, actually, I mean, but you have to go through it.

17:15 So all of that led up to me meeting him and then he on the other side of it was also trying to, he was manifest me and he was going through leadership skill development and, and all this stuff.

17:27 And the first time I walked into his apartment, I see these vision boards on the wall and that’s awesome.

17:31 I did a TikTok on it and he had a huge picture of a diamond engagement ring on one of them.

17:35 And I said, oh my God, he’s like, yeah, I’ve been praying for you and wanting to find you for years.

17:43 Like, yeah, blown away.

17:45 Like, what guy has this?

17:47 Like, we’re in total alignment.

17:50 I mean, I knew it before I even went in there but then I go in there.

17:52 It’s just confirmation after confirmation.

17:54 Yeah.

17:54 And then when, you know, you know, yeah, it goes back to that when, you know, you know, and, and it’s just like anything in life too.

18:00 It’s like we all, like, see all these people that are successful but like, they go through so much to get there and I’m guilty of that too.

18:06 I compare myself and I’m like, they have all these things.

18:09 I never think that they didn’t earn it or whatever.

18:11 But I just think, you know, they have all these things and like, I can never do that, you know, I think I could never do that.

18:16 And it’s like, yeah, I could, if I got my ass up and got self disciplined and just f*cking did it, you know what I mean?

18:22 It’s like, yeah.

18:24 Yeah, you actually can.

18:25 I’m the only one that’s keeping me from doing whatever it is in my heart.

18:29 And that goes for anyone, whether they want to find their loved one, they got to do the work, whether they want to get into shape, whether they want to lose weight whether they want to get a certification, whether they want to become whatever they want to become, right.

18:41 They got to do the work, you know, but it’s not like total work though.

18:44 So I don’t want to say that it’s like total work.

18:45 It’s the mental work.

18:47 It’s the mental work.

18:49 Not necessarily the physical.

18:51 Obviously, if you want to get buff, you gotta, like, you gotta, what is that?

18:55 Like, I won’t do bump.

18:57 You will, you know, you got to do the work but work out.

19:01 You really have to do the mental part before you can actually take the step to go work out.

19:07 Yes, I remember John Maxwell saying like if you look at a tree, you may not be able to chop it down in one day.

19:13 But if you take an ax and every day, you can like five times like eventually that trees will fall over.

19:19 And I was like like that is it like every day adds up.

19:24 Yeah, you just commit to yourself, you’re doing the thing and like go the outcome like it’s not that simple.

19:29 Feel the feelings, get your vibration up, imagine it and connect those two and you will see it, you will start to take inspired action, you will start to see the synchronicities, you will start to see that.

19:42 But getting there is the tricky part and it’s tricky, tricky.

19:46 And so it’s like, you know, people just have to also understand that it’s a process and not everybody can just let it go.

19:53 I swear, I’m like, I want to say let it go.

19:55 At first I was like, is it all nineties?

19:58 That’s it.

19:59 No, no.

20:01 Yeah.

20:01 I mean, it’s just compassion, just have compassion.

20:04 Let’s and mainly compassion for yourself, right?

20:06 Like, yeah, compassion for, for yourself and compassion and patience too.

20:10 And that’s the part I struggle with is like, OK, it’s not happening like today and especially with manifesting love.

20:16 I think a lot of just being in the singles scene, whatever, for a good amount of time.

20:22 I see that a lot like patience, you know, and I’m like, I tell people like God is never late and the timing has to be just right for you to manifest that for you to come together with that other person, they may be out of a relationship, they may be letting things go and you’re not emotionally ready.

20:39 Like Micah and I have talked about like, we would not have been right for each other five years ago, right at all.

20:44 But he had to learn things.

20:45 I had to learn things and, and we had to come together.

20:48 And so the patience part is the hardest for me and even in business and coaching and like, I wouldn’t have been ready for a graduate degree any other time in my life.

20:59 Otherwise you would have done it otherwise I would have done it and maybe you weren’t ready to go, you know, become a life coach is, well, I was that, yeah, I wouldn’t have understood it.

21:06 Yeah.

21:06 And so now it’s like the perfect time.

21:08 So you had to just be, like, all right, I had to be patient with myself, patient with the process.

21:13 Step into it.

21:14 For me.

21:14 That’s the hardest part.

21:15 I am not a patient person.

21:16 I never, I never have been.

21:19 Yeah.

21:19 Well, because it’s like we’re trained to have instant gratification.

21:22 You know, if it takes too long, then, ok, move on to the next thing.

21:25 Right?

21:25 But even as a kid I remember going, are we there yet?

21:27 Are we there yet?

21:28 How many more seconds?

21:29 We drove our parents crazy and we took our road trips and I’m like, oh, I’m so sorry, I’m like that.

21:35 Hey, well, that’s their fault for taking so many rides a kid.

21:38 Right.

21:39 Yeah, that’s difficult.

21:40 But yeah, there’s so much that we have to go through in order to get where we are today.

21:46 And it’s just I’m really trying to work on learning to enjoy all of it.

21:51 Yes.

21:51 Enjoy all of it.

21:53 The present moment.

21:54 Right.

21:54 Right.

21:54 Enjoy right now.

21:56 Right.

21:56 And I love that humanity is waking up to that and a lot of people are discovering the truth, which is fantastic because we kind of need that to survive as humanity.

22:06 Right.

22:06 Yeah.

22:07 Like enjoy the present moment.

22:10 Love where you are.

22:11 Enjoy the journey.

22:12 That’s all we have and we’re never gonna get there.

22:14 We’re never going to get there.

22:15 There’s always going to be some kind of struggle that we’re having.

22:19 So just learn to get through the different things.

22:23 Like you’re never going to reach perfection.

22:25 Like I think people think, oh, one day I’m never gonna have struggles and then everything is going to be hunky dory.

22:30 Definitely not this side of eternity.

22:33 Never.

22:34 I don’t think so.

22:35 Polarity is here.

22:36 Yeah.

22:37 For right now, polarity is here and we got to all like go through it together and just work through it together and don’t worry so much about what everybody else is doing, worry about what you’re doing and follow your own dreams and don’t waste your life.

22:50 Yes.

22:50 That’s the message to myself.

22:52 Girl.

22:52 Get up off your butt and don’t waste your life because dang you 50 and I’m like, I’m 50.

23:00 What?

23:01 You better shut your mouth, girl like, right.

23:03 How do you get here so fast?

23:05 Yeah, that’s a whole other episode.

23:06 Oh, right.

23:07 That’s the title.

23:08 That is, that is.

23:10 Thank you so much for joining me today, Richelle.

23:12 I had so much fun here in my house.

23:14 That’s so cool.

23:15 I love sitting here with the Tascam just looking at you, you’re looking at me and we’re just sharing our stories and our journey and our processing and how we’ve had compassion on ourselves and all the things that we’ve learned.

23:26 And now we’re so happy and then sometimes we’re not happy, but we’re still like enjoying all of it.

23:30 And we know that there’s a lot more to come and that there’s a lot that we’re here to do.

23:36 And the biggest thing is just to have that joy.

23:39 Absolutely.

23:40 I loved it.

23:40 Loved being here with you.

23:41 Thank you so much until we meet again.

23:44 All right.

23:45 See you next time.

23:46 Thank you for joining me today on You Are the Magic Pill.

23:50 My hope is that you leave this podcast feeling better about yourself, inspired, activated and ready to swallow your fears to realize your dreams.

24:01 I would be honored if you would leave me a five star review over in iTunes each week.

24:05 I’ll randomly choose one person to win some.

24:08 You Are the Magic Pill swag.

24:10 Make sure you add your name to the review and I’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner, I really appreciate you spending your time with me today.

24:17 Be sure to pop over to youarethemagicpill.com for past episodes and more gifts to help you wake up and realize that you are the magic pill and you can change it all to have it all.

Episode #48: Welcome to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria, thank you so much for joining me, I’m excited to start a new season with you. Today I want to share something that I wrote a few months ago. I was going through a tough time, I was getting really depressed and I this just flowed out of me. It was the wildest thing, when I was writing what I’m about to read to you, I was typing it out on my phone and it was just coming down, one word at a time, super fast. And then it started to slow down, and I could see the word almost in my mind and then I would hear it, drop in like, the dog ran down the road, it dropped one word at a time and I was just seeing it happen while I was doing it. It was so cool, I have never done that before. But the message was something that I needed to hear, and perhaps you too.

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0:03 Thanks for tuning in to You Are the Magic Pill.

0:06 If you are ready to realize that you are the magic pill, then come on a heroic journey with me to remember who you truly are to activate that power found within.

0:18 Hi and welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill.

0:23 I am sharing with you today.

0:26 Something that I actually wrote a while ago.

0:30 I wrote this, I think about three months ago.

0:33 I’m not for sure, but something like that, I was going through a really tough time again.

0:41 I was getting really depressed and I wrote this because it just flowed out of me.

0:48 It was the wildest thing when I was writing what I’m about to read to you.

0:52 It was like so hard to explain, but I was like, just writing it so fast and I was one thumbing it.

0:59 That’s how I text with one thumb.

1:01 How do you text?

1:02 I text with one thumb.

1:04 My boyfriend thinks that’s so strange, but I’m actually really fast.

1:08 I’m probably faster than some two thumb textures anyway, that’s what I do.

1:13 I’m a one thumb and I was just going so fast writing it, typing it out on my phone, on my notes and it was just coming down like one word at a time super fast and then it started to slow down.

1:27 Then I just started to like, see the word almost in my mind and then I would write it out.

1:33 Not really see it, I guess, hear it, I would hear it and it would just like, drop in like, you know, the dog ran down the road, you know, it just like, dropped one word at a time and I was just like, seeing it happen while I was doing it.

1:50 And it was so cool.

1:51 I have ever done that before.

1:52 That’s what I call a major download alert.

1:57 And it was awesome.

1:58 And I can’t wait to do that again.

2:00 Kind of fell out of the zone after that.

2:02 It’s been quite a while since I’ve been back on here.

2:05 And so I’m happy to be back with you, share my message and I hope that this helps you.

2:12 I often struggle with getting lost in my mind and sometimes not finding my way back for quite some time.

2:20 It feels like I don’t know if you ever get like that, but it seems like I often do over the last, like my whole life anyway.

2:30 So here we go.

2:31 I’m just gonna read what I wrote.

2:33 You know, I like to do that.

2:34 So here it goes.

2:37 Do you ever get lost in your mind?

2:39 So lost that you are not sure you will find your way back.

2:44 I get so lost in my thoughts of, why am I here?

2:48 Why did I do nothing with my life?

2:50 Why can’t I do something now?

2:53 Why do I feel so sad?

2:55 Why do I struggle every single day?

2:58 And why does my life not represent what’s in my true heart’s desire?

3:03 Why do I know what I need to do?

3:06 But yet I can’t seem to do it.

3:08 Why can’t I just f*cking do it?

3:11 I get mad that I’m not who I need to be or think I should be.

3:15 I get so upset when I think about the time I’ve wasted, when I compare my worth to the money I see in my reality then it’s definitely of the same value.

3:25 I feel so unworthy.

3:27 But yet I know I’m not deep down.

3:30 I know I have value and worth, but I can’t seem to hold on to that feeling for very long.

3:36 I spiral down to the depths of hell.

3:39 I know I’m in control but am I really f*ck?

3:43 I want to say enough is enough and I actually do.

3:47 But then here comes f*cking gloom and doom again.

3:51 When I think about myself as a child.

3:53 Then all I really remember is the bad sh*t.

3:56 The trauma that little girl was so full of anger.

4:00 I always felt like I didn’t belong and I still feel this way and I don’t get it this is making me sad to read this.

4:07 Now, honestly, I’m little teary eyed because, oh, yeah, I’m still working through some stuff here.

4:14 Is this a program that I can’t override?

4:18 Is it something that I can’t say enough is enough?

4:21 Do you ever feel this lost?

4:23 I’m not the only one many have this control over our minds sometimes.

4:28 I think who might be the controller of what pours into my mind and system.

4:33 I try to flood out the unwanted thoughts with the desired thoughts but seem to fail more often than not.

4:39 I’m like that crab trying to get out but I keep falling back down.

4:43 Oh Man, comparison is the death of me every single f*cking day.

4:48 And that is like so true.

4:51 Comparison is the total death of me.

4:55 I see others on social media living their best life and being so amazing and I’m just sitting here being nothing and I just think damn it, why do I let you kill me comparison?

5:08 Like why do I let you kill me?

5:11 That’s the question of the f*cking day.

5:13 I seriously want you to stop.

5:15 It’s not right for you to continually tell me sh*t things that you have to stop, stop torture and humanity.

5:22 You don’t own us anymore.

5:25 I felt this way my entire life and I’m really just realizing it, it’s like a roller coaster ride.

5:32 I’m up, then I’m down, then I’m up, then I’m down.

5:35 Do you ever feel this way?

5:37 I always ask myself, how do I make it stop?

5:41 How do I make that fucking voice in my head?

5:45 Shut up already.

5:47 How I’m drifting away slowly into the negative voice that haunts me day in and day out.

5:54 Please go away.

5:57 You do not serve me anymore.

5:59 I am the one who is in charge.

6:01 You are no longer welcome here.

6:03 So please go away, go away because you make me feel so terribly.

6:09 But you did do your job.

6:12 And for that, I thank you.

6:14 You allowed me to feel sorrow, sadness, depression, hopelessness, and all kinds of yucky sh*t.

6:20 Now, when the happy comes back to me, then I’ll be so thankful to allow it in the funny thing is I’m so grateful for everything in my life, the good, the bad, the ugly, but it doesn’t mean that the suffering has not been painful.

6:35 We all have some kind of suffering that is part of the program, part of being human or the mind is a powerful thing they say and they are right.

6:43 But the cool thing is each one of us is more powerful than the mind.

6:49 Our thoughts are not always our thoughts and you can become aware of your true thoughts.

6:55 When you do a body check, a body check is where you can determine how you are feeling.

7:00 Is your energy low or high.

7:03 My subconscious mind is constantly pouring in negative sh*it even though I truly don’t want it like I don’t want it to like I don’t, I’m like, stop already.

7:14 I said, go away.

7:15 I think it’s called like a generational curse.

7:18 It’s my choice if I break the curse or not.

7:21 It’s your choice too.

7:22 I often wonder if everyone had the feelings of hopelessness like I do sometimes when I first heard Jeremiah 29 11, a long time ago, my soul felt it.

7:33 That particular Bible verse made me tear up and cry.

7:36 I get why now for I know the plans I have for you plans to give you hope and a future when I can disconnect from what I was taught about myself, like when I meditate or go into nature or doing something that I love to do, I get connected to God, then all the hopelessness falls away.

8:00 It’s in those times that I realize I am way more than I thought I am made in the image of God.

8:07 And with my own imagination, I can create the images that I really want to see in my reality.

8:14 It’s through the visualization, meditation, whatever you wanna call it in my mind, when I’m in control, that allows the beauty within so that I can feel it too.

8:27 And then I connect those two and I can manifest that in my reality, I take my power back.

8:34 But sometimes I fall back into the negative thoughts that haunt me.

8:38 I go deep down again.

8:40 And I think how did I get here again when I know the truth?

8:45 It’s because I need to be disciplined, know thyself, master thyself, become a disciple to myself, just like anything in life, whether it’s working out, eating healthier or shifting your mindset.

8:57 It all takes discipline.

8:59 And that decision to become discipline is my choice and your choice.

9:03 All I have to do is so simple is just do the steps meditate, find the things that I love to do, go in that direction, feel the feeling and stay in that high vibe and believe in myself.

9:18 You know, I have an episode called, follow my list that you should check out.

9:22 It’s really good.

9:23 I’m gonna go enhance it a little bit, but it’s actually really good.

9:26 It was a download that I had another download.

9:29 So let me get back on track here.

9:31 So the question of the day is how, how do I make myself choose discipline?

9:35 Do I allow the pain and suffering to dictate my life and my reality by spiraling down further and further into the depths of hell?

9:43 Or do I remember that it’s all part of the game that I’m playing?

9:47 We weren’t given the rules of the game of life.

9:49 But guess what?

9:50 There are rules to this game?

9:53 You have had them with you your whole life just like I have, I just didn’t remember.

9:59 I mean, I didn’t either.

10:00 Starting to though.

10:01 I definitely felt it as a child.

10:03 I felt there had to be more than what I was experiencing my childhood.

10:08 Like many had some wonderful fun moments, but also had many dark and fearful moments, not saying it was my parents’ fault at all.

10:17 I have another episode about that, like not saying that at all.

10:20 So please don’t take that that way.

10:22 I love my parents very much and they did the best job that they could do.

10:26 But I did experience a lot of trauma as a child that trauma I experienced during my childhood became my operating system for most of the time and most of my life and it actually is still affecting me today.

10:41 I felt so much anger, sadness, fear and was deeply programmed to think.

10:46 I was nothing to think.

10:47 I didn’t matter to think I would never be smart enough or good enough.

10:51 You might have those feelings too my whole life.

10:55 I’ve compared myself to anyone and everyone and everything.

10:59 My mind is such a jerk.

11:03 But it’s true.

11:04 It’s been tormenting me forever.

11:07 My mind and my heart, day after day get tormented.

11:12 I try to put a smile on my face and do the thing called life by pretending that I’m ok.

11:19 But there has always been that f*cking voice in my head telling me over and over and over that you are not enough, you are not as good as the others.

11:32 So don’t even try.

11:34 You don’t f*cking matter.

11:35 So just give up quit and it’s exhausting.

11:39 I’m just like, that is not the truth.

11:43 Ok, that’s bullshit.

11:45 It’s just not right for that to keep coming back into my head, into my mind, into where I can hear it.

11:52 I’m like, stop it already.

11:55 Why do I continue to allow the thoughts to have power over me?

11:58 Why do I believe the story that was passed down to me?

12:02 These are questions I often ask, I allow them because I didn’t know the truth.

12:07 I didn’t know the rules.

12:08 Guess what?

12:09 I’m learning the rules and I’m fighting back.

12:12 I’m fighting my way out of the prison.

12:13 I’m in, I’m learning how to accept all of me and not to think what others might think about me or if I’m good enough or if I’m as successful as others, why does it even matter so much?

12:27 All that matters is that I listen to my heart and my true self.

12:31 I connect to God and then I can tear down the walls that I put up to protect myself from the pain.

12:37 And all I did was keep the pain in.

12:39 You know, I was trying to keep the pain out, but I kept the pain in.

12:43 Isn’t that ironic?

12:45 Isn’t that ironic, don’t you think? When I connect, then I allow the light to take over the dark?

12:51 I know there will be more dark that comes.

12:55 But I also know that I’m connecting to the power within, then the light will always shine brighter.

13:01 The thing is that we have both because we need both to awaken to the truth of who we truly are.

13:07 The wound is the place where light enters you.

13:11 Remi quote, I super love.

13:14 The suffering pushes us to rise up and to be who we came here to be, it pushes us to remember, becoming aware that you can actually break the cycle or curse is key.

13:25 But actually taking the steps to pull yourself out is how you change it all to have it all.

13:30 It’s how you override the old program moving in the direction of what ignites your soul and taking the path that feels really, really good is how you and I can drown out the negative thoughts, flood your mind with what you want to see and become constantly.

13:48 Then you will drown out what has been controlling you.

13:52 Tell the voice that speaks the unwanted thoughts that you are the one in control.

13:58 Now you tell the story that is within your heart, you rewrite it all allow the anger or whatever negative feelings to fuel the fire within this helps me to turn the anger and desires of my heart into passion.

14:15 What angers me ignites me.

14:17 My moments, create my momentum.

14:20 I’m in a bottle, I’m in a bottle.

14:22 I’m like I dream of genie.

14:25 That’d be kind of cool.

14:26 She was so cute.

14:28 Anyway, I’m in a battle with the one who tries to control me but I will f*cking win this battle.

14:35 I am breaking free and I know I will be OK in the end, no matter what this too shall pass, you will find your way just like I am because we ask, we show or see right?

14:47 Ask, ask baby.

14:49 So we’re gonna take our power back by connecting to God.

14:53 We’re gonna visualize, we’re gonna have discipline.

14:56 We’re gonna meditate, we’re gonna create what’s in our heart, in our reality, not what’s in our mind unless it’s your good thoughts, not those negative thoughts, we’re taking our power back and we’re gonna get rid of those thoughts and we’re gonna tell them we’re done with you.

15:14 OK?

15:15 So, audios get out of here, take your power back and let’s get this reality created together by going within healing that inner child and taking our power back.

15:30 Thank you so much for tuning in with me today.

15:32 I hope that this message helped you and I will continue to talk more about compassion and communication, all kinds of good stuff coming up on this next season.

15:42 Thank you so much and I’ll see you next time.

15:45 Thank you for joining me today on You Are the Magic Pill.

15:49 My hope is that you leave this podcast feeling better about yourself, inspired, activated and ready to swallow your fears, to realize your dreams.

15:59 I would be honored if you would leave me a five star review over in iTunes each week.

16:04 I’ll randomly choose one person to win some You Are the Magic Pill swag.

16:08 Make sure you add your name to the review and I’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner, I really appreciate you spending your time with me today.

16:15 Be sure to pop over to youarethemagicpill.com for past episodes and more gifts to help you wake up and realize that you are the magic pill and you can change it all to have it all.

Episode 32: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today, we are going to be continuing part two with my special guest, Billy Carson. Last week, we spoke about Billy’s childhood, his channel 4BiddenKnowledge TV, about reality, Akashic Records, chaos and trauma. I’m glad you’re here with us this week as we dive a little deeper into life’s truths. We start this interview where we left off last week talking about, doing the work on the inner space to change the outer space.

Ready? Let’s go…

IN THIS EPISODE:

• We have to really re-learn to find it. First of all, who we truly really are, it’s not what they’ve given you and told you who you are, it’s who you discover that you are, and it’s important for us to do the research, for us to each take our own individual trip, their own journey to inner space, and that’s going to come through a research investigation study. Everybody’s got special gifts and talents and even passions in this journey that others don’t have. (2:00)

• I had an epiphany at age 7, I said, Wow, there’s nobody coming to save me, I’m going to have to save myself, that was my exact thought. I realized from that moment forward that anything that I wanted to do, anything I need to achieve, it was going to take action and energy on my part. I was going to be the one to put the energy exchange into the system to get the result that I wanted, and if I didn’t do that, I would be stuck in the system or the place where I was. I couldn’t afford to complain about it because I left myself there. (7:42)

• The Bible was supposedly written by different people in different books, but I really wanted to find out, was this written in real time or was just put together much later? I found it much later, that it was written between 180 to 900 AD, and it was written by the phoenicians, followers of Hermes. They were just collecting wherever tidbits of scriptures and in the scrolls and papyrus that they came across that were collectively putting this stuff together into this book. Much later, the Council of Nicea came across it and they orchestrated it into this, what they call a canonized Bible, where they took things out and move things and changed words and phrases around by accident and on-purpose, and mis-translated some words, that were very important by the way, and kind of cultivated it into their own control system book. (9:25)

• I’ve been through ups and downs, highs and lows, I had a lot of money and lost at all too, I’ve done everything. So all those things are there for us to become better teachers, so we can actually relate to everybody on every single level. There’s not one person out there, I could talk to the highest level of quatum physics, and the way I can talk to Mishio Kaku, have a conversation with him for hours, and I can go talk to somebody that’s living in a low class income neighborhood on Section 8, and I can sit there and have a great conversation with them for many, many hours. I can talk to a homeless person, I can talk to a middle class person, a wealthy person, it doesn’t matter who it is, on every level, I can contribute and I can be on their level, sincerely, not fake, but sincerely, because I’ve experienced everything from depression to highs and lows, being married, being divorced, having kids, I’ve done it all. (14:50)

• I don’t chase money, I chase my passions, and because I chase my passions, abundance is the side effect. I want people to understand that spirituality and manifesting your financial abundance goes hand in hand, and that anyone can do it. Whatever abundances is for you, There’s a different levels of abundance for everyone, Everybody’s got a different meaning of abundance in their brain, some people it’s having billions of dollars, but those people do a lot in the world, and for some people, just having all their bills pay without having to stress and worry. It’s about relieving our stress and finances. For me, it’s not about chasing money, it’s about buying my freedom, (19:51)

ABOUT BILLY:

Billy Carson is the founder and CEO of 4BiddenKnowledge Inc, and the Best Selling Author of The Compendium Of The Emerald Tablets and Woke Doesn’t Mean Broke.

​Mr. Carson is also the founder and CEO of 4BiddenKnowledge TV, a new conscious streaming TV network, and is an expert host on Deep Space, a new original streaming series by Gaia. This series explores the Secret Space Program, revealing extraordinary technologies and their potential origins. Mr. Carson also serves as an expert host on Gaia’s original series, Ancient Civilizations, in which a team of renowned scholars deciphers the riddles of our origins and pieces together our forgotten history documented in monuments and texts around the world. 

Mr. Carson appreciates the dedication and hard work it takes to accomplish great things. Recently, Mr. Carson earned the Certificate of Science (with an emphasis on Neuroscience) at M.I.T. and has a certificate in Ancient Civilization from Harvard University. Among his most notable achievements, Billy is the CEO of First Class Space Agency based in Fort Lauderdale, FL. Specifically, his space agency is involved in research and development of alternative propulsion systems and zero-point energy devices.

FILMS & TV:

 ·      2019 Worlds Biggest Mysteries
·       2019 UFOs The Lost Evidence
·       2019 UFO’s: Uncovering the Truth
·       2018 Knowledge For Ascension With Billy Carson
·       2017 What If 
·       2017 DocUFObia
·       2017 Ancient Civilizations 
·       2017 Beyond Belief with George Noory
·       2017 Life beyond Our Existence
·       2017 Buzzsaw with Sean Stone
·       2016 The Anunnaki Series
·       2016 Deep Space
·       2016 Baltic Sea Anomaly: The Unsolved Mystery
·       2015 UFAH Favorites
·       2012 Countdown to Apocalypse

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Episode 30: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to share how I don’t want to ever be fake, I don’t want to ever act like everything is so joyful and blissful and perfect in my life, because it’s not. I’ve been up-leveling and changing a lot and collapsing my reality and rewriting all programming and trying to let go of the things that are so ingrained and taught. But I’m going to tell you right now, it’s putting up a fight, it’s been a big fight. I’m in a battle with it myself and here to let it all go and to change that outcome. And if you’re going through that, I just wanted to share with you that it is definitely part of the process. Just know that we’re going to have those ups and downs, and the beautiful thing is, once you can really fully love all parts of yourself, then that’s when we can really have that up-leveling and achieve Christ Consciousness, and that’s what we signed up for, this is what we’re here to do.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• I was just kind of lying to my bed, thinking about things, and I don’t know if you ever get like this… I don’t know, lately it’s just I know I’ve discovered a lot of truths that I didn’t know before. And it’s made me really blissful and happy and free. But then there’s also this process of… Have you heard of the Death to Ego kind of thing, and your inner child? I’ve been working with my inner child type stuff, and honestly I talked about this before, I didn’t really realize that a lot of the trauma that I went through as a child affects me now. (1:24)

• There’s so many messages in the movies like Interstellar, The Matrix, I even watch Jupiter ascending. There’s a lot of messages in that, I could go on and on with the movies, and it’s fascinating to me. I love going back and watching them with the eyes that I have now… I just felt like talking to you for a minute about just having that pain body in the house sometimes when we rise up and we go through an up-leveling that we’re going to experience this and we’re also going to experience things coming into our reality. (4:40)

• If someone is making you jealous or someone’s making you angry, are someone’s making you… Whatever, if you’re getting an emotional trigger from it, then there’s something going on with you. And if you’re projecting on to those people, then it’s about you and that’s when you need to stop and say, Hey, why am I doing this? What’s it about? And if we could all understand that relationships are about that, we call in what we need. I’m thankful for what happened because now it’s making me really get down on my knees again and go within and get my power back. (9:02)

• Maybe I can help you take that first step to start that journey, to go within, to go look at some of your inner child stuff, you may not even know what that is, go research it. If you feel called or led to do that, if it’s your time, it may not be your time. I always say there’s different actors or different roles in movies, there’s even just extras, it’s like we all have our time here, we’re all here on earth together serving our purpose, and if it’s meant for you to hear or to see something that’s off, then you’ll hear it at the time that you’re supposed to hear it. If we could all understand that everybody’s on their own path, we’re just here to serve and to love one another and to learn from one another, the world would be such a better place if we could all just realize that we’re all in this together. (12:23)

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Episode 20: Today’s topic is a little bit serious. Because it is mental health awareness month, I wanted to talk about compassion. Sometimes when you look at a picture, then you don’t always see who that person truly is or what they might be going through. My favorite word is compassion, and it’s my hope that humanity will start to have more compassion for those that are struggling. It’s also my hope that we as humans realize that we are all in this together in this game of life. We realize that even though a person might discover truth or might be aware that they are having negative feelings or don’t feel well, then it doesn’t mean that that person can just snap out of it, it’s a process to heal the shadows that come up, and it’s not always a quick and easy process.

Ready? Let’s get started…

IN THIS EPISODE:

•    Life can be like a roller coaster ride, we go up and down and experience all kinds of emotions. If we could just let go more, then we would experience the moment and realize that everything is going to be okay. (2:18)

•  I think that most struggle because it’s part of our experience, we grow up, we get taught things, and then we don’t really realize who we are. We’re not taught who we are, we’re taught who to be, we’re not taught to think for ourselves, and so we lose that connection within ourselves. (3:36)

•    I’ve had complete joy. But then also, each time I up-level or each time I go through an inner healing from some of my childhood stuff, it brings those shadows out, and so I have to love all parts of me. I then have to go through that process, and I have to pull myself back out and reconnect. (4:52)

•   Remember to look around and have compassion for those that right now are not okay. I think if we could all do that, then our world would be such a more beautiful place. (5:41)

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Episode #5. Hi, and welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. I want to talk to you today about the Four Agreements. Have you ever read that book? If you never read that book, I highly recommend it. And actually, if you’ve read it, I recommend reading again, because you very well may read something that you didn’t see before. I recently did a post about the Four Agreements, because I just love it so much. Today I want to give you the Victoria recap, and my version does not do it justice, but I want to just give highlights of what I walked away with… This is actually from 2019, so when I go back and read it now, I’m certain I will see some things differently. My perception of it is going to be different. Ready for the Victoria recap?

IN THIS EPISODE:

•   If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say it at all. (2:06)
•   Remember when we used to run around and say, ‘I’m rubber, you’re glue, and anything you say bounces off me and sticks to you’? (2:50)
•   If you have that confidence in yourself and you know who you truly are, you can just not even let it affect you. (3:46)
•   Perfect is whatever you want it to be.  (6:09)

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