Episode 41: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. I’m so excited that you’re here with me today as I welcome back my dear friend Stasia Bliss to help us welcome in 2022 as our authentic selves.

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•  And I think it’s part of the process too. We have to learn to identify ourselves in our environment, but then as we grow up, we start to realize a lot of those programming, they aren’t what we were truly brought here to express, so we do this process of peeling a lot of that off to reveal who we really are. Yeah, and I think that that’s really cool because that is what we’re here to do is just to discover that truth. But some people never do. And I think that that’s why you and I are here to help people awaken to the truth.  (02:14)

•  If you did that in your career and in your relationship and in your personal growth, how does that feel? Yeah, I think that that is a lot to process because you can look at your last year and have a lot of regrets and hate yourself, and that’s not good. But maybe just look back at it and be like, What could I do now? That would make fulfillment better. But like you said, Love what you already did, love the whole last year, and just know that this year is going to be just another part of your development, opening up and flowering. Like you said, and discovering that authentic self.  (06:26)

•  And I guess for some people, maybe they just want to keep doing the same thing every day, all day, and maybe that’s what their mission is, to do in their experience. But then for the other people that are having a longing, they really seek more and desire more. Yeah, mix it up a little bit. I started doing that more last year, and it does really make a difference, you’re like, Oh, I didn’t even know I’d like to do that, and… Oh wow, I didn’t even know that existed. That reminds me of what you focus on, you really do see, it’s so cool because that can be with everything. Definitely, and some people really do love where they’re at, people are really living with the thing they have set up, and I have all the honor in the world for that, that’s a beautiful place to be in. And for some people, it lasts a really long time, and some people, that’s a fleeting experience. And so I think that’s a beautiful thing to cherish too, but yeah, if you are on a journey of, Hey, I want to do something different, or I need some change in my life or I have been in repeating patterns, there’s just a lot out there. Like I said, just bring the curiosity along and go on a journey of synchronicity.  (09:50)

•  If one thing’s going to go up, something else is going to go down. So to prepare for that, by being okay with those helpless moments for a minute and trying to reap their beauty too. Exactly, yeah, because when I say no pain, no gain, and you really do fall to your knees to rise back up, right? And so I totally agree with that. You got to kinda break that all down and get pushed, and then rise up again, and then maybe fall down again and rise up because your just learning to walk again, right? Well, my favorite thing that I feel that people don’t realize in this world, you and I have talked about this, is that the heart muscle is just like any muscle, if we want to grow it strong, we have to be willing to do the exercises of love and expansion, and also the pain of the heartbreak. That’s just like the pain of… If you’re doing weights every day, you actually rip those muscles in order to grow them, in order to make them stronger and longer, and by using our heart muscle in our life and really putting our hearts into what we do, whether it’s a person in a relationship or a job, or our workout. And if something fails, or we get hurt, that’s also part of the growth, we actually are sort of wanting to grow in that way, and I know that’s a tricky one for some people, like I don’t want a heartache, but in a way we do.  (13:34)

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Stasia is a Master Tantric, Relationship Coach, Healer, Empath, Oracle and Mystic. Her studies and experiences have taken her around the globe and into the heart of Ancient Tantric and Yogic teachings as well as deep into the heart of the plant medicine journey as both an herbologist as well as a Shaman. Healing modalities include Akashic record/fielding work; Emotion Code; Past Life Scan and Ancestral lineage integration; kundalini yoga/meditation/hatha yoga cleansing practices and detoxification; DNA upgrades and mental sheath recalibration; womb healing; Internal Alchemy; Belvaspata Angelic Light/Frequency healing; Qi Vesta Spiritual Oneness consulting; Inner Family and Family Mandala integration and Especially Life-force management and recalibration.

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Episode 38: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. On today’s episode today I wanted you to know that because Thanksgiving’s next week and we’re full of gratitude this month, we should be full of gratitude every day, every month. Right? And so I just wanted to make sure that I told you, thank you, especially in the month of November. Thank you for tuning in with me. My goal is to inspire you to go out and change the world, for you to be grateful and thankful for all life’s experiences. In this lifetime, this precious life that you have, this is it. This is your lifetime right now in this human form, whatever you chose to happen this time around, this is it. So, what are you going to do with your life?

SHOWNOTES:

• And I know that that can happen because when you don’t have the eyes to see the good and the bad, then you will not appreciate it. But honestly, when things happen to us that are not that great, it actually pushes us to become great, right? It pushes us to be our best. I don’t know about you, but when somebody comes into my life or an experience comes into my life, I might get like upset or depressed or something like that might happen. But then man, it just ignites me. Like it puts that flame inside of me. And sometimes you need to cry. Sometimes you need to have that emotion from inside of you, to push you. And it just fuels your fire, right? To appreciate that when you have those encounters of people that trigger you or people that push you, that’s good. I may not feel that great in the moment, but it’s a good thing. It’s a really good thing. Especially if you become aware that that’s what’s happening, that this person came into your life, or this experience came into your life in order for you to see the direction you need to go to get pushed into becoming your best version. (03:47)

• You know, I love Rumi and so I’m going to read it to you. It says gratitude is wine for the soul. Go ahead and get drunk. I just think that’s kind of cool because I think we should get so drunk that you see the good and everything that comes to you. You know what I mean? Like get so drunk with gratitude. Think about like you’re grateful for your home that you have, no matter what it is, you know, be grateful for the car that you drive, be grateful for your job. Be grateful for your family. Be grateful. If you have water to drink, be grateful for all the little things. Be grateful for the air that you breathe. Be grateful for the eyes that you can see with. If you have eyes to see with, if you have ears to hear with, be grateful for that, be grateful for your mind. Be grateful for your thoughts. Be grateful for everything that comes into your life. (04:36) 

• When you think about it, you’re like, why is this person in my life? All they do is cause me chaos, but they’re not. They’re bringing out the best in you. So be like, what am I learning from this? They’re just playing their role. They’re playing their role. They’re playing their part to push yourself, to get up and do what you came here to do, you know what I mean? And so just appreciate it. I’ll be like, man, you’re really pushing me. You are pushing me. You are pushing me to rise the up. Right? So my message today is to just be grateful and thankful. And the more that you become grateful and thankful, even though you think your life sucks, or you think that you don’t have everything that you should right now in this moment, shift that and you realize that you do have exactly what you need right now. (05:51) 

• I get to help people in my job. I get to provide for my daughters. I get to be out in the world, having experiences. I get to meet all kinds of people. And you know, for that, I’m grateful. Am I running around all the time with no time? Yes I am. But I’m still thankful for it. I’m thankful because I know that I’m in the place that I’m supposed to be because I followed my bliss. I followed what ignited me, although it’s not exactly the most perfect situation. I’m still finding gratitude in it. And I’m still finding joy in my heart for it. And I’m just so full of joy right now. I’m so full for all things that are coming into my life and it doesn’t always stay there. But, I feel like I could just explode sometimes because I get so joyful and I get so connected to that power. (08:54) 

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Episode 35: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. On today’s episode I want to encourage you to follow your own heart’s desire, and to know that that’s exactly what you need to do, try not to compare yourself, try not to judge yourself according to other people’s standards and other people’s desires that they want in their life. You take your own path, you do what’s right for you and I have promised you, you’re going to come up out on top, you’re going to rise up. It’s will be amazing and you’re going to be exactly where you need to be. You be you boo!

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SHOWNOTES:

• We have the answers within ourselves, but we tend to look outward for those answers, and we seek advice from so many other people. But what we don’t realize is that the people we seek advice are on a different journey, while it’s okay to talk about things with other people. It’s also best to probably sit with yourself and to ask yourself those questions and to see what comes to your mind or what plays out in your reality, what synchronicity happens. Or the things that you start to observe because you asked to see certain things or you are seeking something, then you find it, right? (1:43)

•    And I’ve kinda touched on this before, but it’s really been weighing on my heart lately to talk about it a little bit more in depth, because it’s like we ask other people for this particular advice, but then they give us advice, but it’s based on what their reality is right? So even though we are in this world together, we’re not in the same reality, and we don’t have the same perception because we each have our own upbringing, we each have our own things that we were taught that are true or not true for ourselves, but it is what we were taught. The key is really to listen to yourself, to follow your own guidance and your own intuition, and I’m not saying not ask people stuff, but just do know that it isn’t necessarily going to be the best advice. Because they’re telling you based on what they would do. (2:33)

•   Are you trying to create that in your reality based on that you think that you’re supposed to do this? Because other people are doing this, because society thinks you should do it? Or, are you doing this because you want to? You know what I mean? Because you desire to… So that’s the questions I have to ask myself. Whenever I’m making decisions, it’s like, Okay, how do you feel about that inside… Does it ignite you? Does it bring peace to you or am I pushing it? Am I trying to make this happen based on somebody else’s beliefs, based on somebody else’s journey, based on what I’ve been taught, so that’s where you really have to know thyself, right, because when you know thy self, then you can feel and be able to be in tune with what’s right for your personal path, and it’s just been really such a cool experience to finally see that for myself and to be like, It’s okay if you don’t do a certain thing that other people think you should do. (5:29)

•    And if you don’t know what that is, that’s where you have to start spending time with yourself, because if you’re always following the leader, you’re always following the guidance of other people, then maybe you’re living in their shadows and you’re not truly seeing who you are. So, you gotta take that step to find out who you are, right? If you don’t know… I didn’t use to know that, I’m slowly still discovering that because I’ve always kinda lived in the shadows of other people, and I don’t regret it, it’s fine, it’s just part of my process of this life and part of my experience, and now I’m just kind of realizing that I’m just kind of discovering who I am and what ignites and just lights me up. I’m starting to take different risks to do different things that I didn’t know I would even be doing. (7:26) 

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Episode 34: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to talk to you about that one time that I dated an alcoholic. So, I was dating this person, and everything seemed to be going really well, and I did kinda notice a few things that were a little strange, maybe red flags, but I continued to go out with this person. Then after about a couple of months, I was just like, I don’t think this is the right fit for me, and I proceeded to break up. That didn’t go over very well, and that’s when I realized that this person was actually an alcoholic and I had no idea, I really didn’t know, which is kind of strange, but I didn’t because I guess there’s different types of alcoholics and he was more of a binge drinker. While he was with me, he didn’t really go off into a binge period until I broke up with him, and then I realized that that’s what was happening because he was kind of verbally abusive to me through text and phone calls. I decided to continue the relationship because I just felt still connected to him and that I was supposed to continue the relationship, it didn’t feel right in my soul to let go just yet.

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SHOWNOTES:

•     Everybody has their own own way that they’re going to go through what they need to go through in order to find their way back to themselves. You just have to let it play out and be supportive and not so judgmental and not projecting what you think they should do because of your perception and what you would choose to do because you might not need what that person needs. In whatever particular situation they’re in, whether it be a relationship or a job or anything, you just might not… You might not need that, but they do, to jot them, to wake them up to who they truly are or to see the shadow within themselves. (4:14)

•    I didn’t understand all the projections and what people say and the triggers and how that’s a shadow within me and how relationships help us see the things that we need to see about ourselves as individuals. And it’s there for that purpose, to help us grow and sometimes push us, and honestly, this particular relationship was like the final piece that I needed to really help me to go within and find that power and belief and love for myself. I had already gotten to that level of where I love myself and I had confidence and I felt really good, but there was just that one little piece left, (7:04)

•   I’ve learned what I need to learn, I’m okay, I can break free now, I can walk away and I’m okay, and he’ll be okay, he will finish out his path, his journey, exactly how he needs to. We came in to one another’s lives to show us what we needed to see. You either see it and integrate it and move on to the next level, or you break free from that moment or that relationship, and you repeat it again, until you get judged again to try to go within, to see it again, and you keep doing it over and over until you finally, like me in this particular situation, because it’s not my first toxic relationship. (10:19)

•    My message today is just how I dated an alcoholic, or why that happened. I have zero regrets about it, I am thankful and grateful that I went through that experience and I care about this person because he played his part in my life, and he showed me what I needed to see in order to rise up and become more whole and to love myself even more, To realize who I truly am, so for that I’m grateful and it allowed me to attract the new person in my life that is on the frequency that I’m on now. If you’re in an abusive relationship or a toxic relationship, know that you don’t have to stay there, that you can learn what you need to learn and then break free when it’s the right time, but just trust the process and realize that you brought that into your life and that you can also release yourself from it. (14:15) 

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Episode 30: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. Today I want to share how I don’t want to ever be fake, I don’t want to ever act like everything is so joyful and blissful and perfect in my life, because it’s not. I’ve been up-leveling and changing a lot and collapsing my reality and rewriting all programming and trying to let go of the things that are so ingrained and taught. But I’m going to tell you right now, it’s putting up a fight, it’s been a big fight. I’m in a battle with it myself and here to let it all go and to change that outcome. And if you’re going through that, I just wanted to share with you that it is definitely part of the process. Just know that we’re going to have those ups and downs, and the beautiful thing is, once you can really fully love all parts of yourself, then that’s when we can really have that up-leveling and achieve Christ Consciousness, and that’s what we signed up for, this is what we’re here to do.

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• I was just kind of lying to my bed, thinking about things, and I don’t know if you ever get like this… I don’t know, lately it’s just I know I’ve discovered a lot of truths that I didn’t know before. And it’s made me really blissful and happy and free. But then there’s also this process of… Have you heard of the Death to Ego kind of thing, and your inner child? I’ve been working with my inner child type stuff, and honestly I talked about this before, I didn’t really realize that a lot of the trauma that I went through as a child affects me now. (1:24)

• There’s so many messages in the movies like Interstellar, The Matrix, I even watch Jupiter ascending. There’s a lot of messages in that, I could go on and on with the movies, and it’s fascinating to me. I love going back and watching them with the eyes that I have now… I just felt like talking to you for a minute about just having that pain body in the house sometimes when we rise up and we go through an up-leveling that we’re going to experience this and we’re also going to experience things coming into our reality. (4:40)

• If someone is making you jealous or someone’s making you angry, are someone’s making you… Whatever, if you’re getting an emotional trigger from it, then there’s something going on with you. And if you’re projecting on to those people, then it’s about you and that’s when you need to stop and say, Hey, why am I doing this? What’s it about? And if we could all understand that relationships are about that, we call in what we need. I’m thankful for what happened because now it’s making me really get down on my knees again and go within and get my power back. (9:02)

• Maybe I can help you take that first step to start that journey, to go within, to go look at some of your inner child stuff, you may not even know what that is, go research it. If you feel called or led to do that, if it’s your time, it may not be your time. I always say there’s different actors or different roles in movies, there’s even just extras, it’s like we all have our time here, we’re all here on earth together serving our purpose, and if it’s meant for you to hear or to see something that’s off, then you’ll hear it at the time that you’re supposed to hear it. If we could all understand that everybody’s on their own path, we’re just here to serve and to love one another and to learn from one another, the world would be such a better place if we could all just realize that we’re all in this together. (12:23)

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Episode 25: Do you know that when you start to call in your higher self, your higher mission, then things will change in your reality? I’m going through that right now. I’m changing everything in my reality, and it’s kind of wild, but if you’re aware of it, then you can embrace it and run with it and realize that you’re doing that and that it’s going to all work out in the end. It is going to be a beautiful thing because you’re going to actually be doing what you came here to do.

Joseph Campell has a great quote about bliss; “Follow your bliss.
If you do follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you.” What’s your bliss? Let’s take a look at that today. Ready?

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• When you just have that passion and that excitement, that bliss, and you’re just running towards that goal and you’re just like, I’m doing this, and you just totally believe in yourself, then you can see yourself doing it. (3:32)

• You bring yourself back down to what your subconscious belief is, and it’s really fascinating to me to learn that and once you become aware of it, then you can unlearn that you can re-train your subconscious brain, and that is cool because then you can now consciously start to consciously seek that into your life. (4:13)

• Let’s say you have a dream in your heart, you had this excitement or a desire to do it, and then all of a sudden your heart and then your mind is like, No, you can’t do that. You’re not capable of doing that. That’s not true. That’s when you don’t let your mind out beat your heart, and that’s when you bring them together because you need to realize that whatever that excitement was, there’s a reason you got excited about that. (6:53)

• So what you want to do is, you want to take that belief and you’ve listened, and you know what it is that you want, then you imagine it, you visualize it, you see it play out in your mind, and then you want to connect your mind and your heart, connect by visualizing, you have the heart, the feeling, the belief that you can do it, so you connect it. (10:13)

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Episode 22: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill, I’m your host Victoria. I’m excited that you’re here with me today because I have a very special guest, Stasia Bliss. She’s an amazing friend of mine, and she’s been super helpful in my journey and transformation. Stasia is a live force management specialist and a conscious mental health educator. And she’s going to talk to us about another viewpoint on depression today, utilizing over two decades of wisdom and studies into science and the process of a spiritual awakening. She is here with us to share her insights on another way that we can look at what depression could be and how as a species, we are only beginning to understand the potential of what is called negative emotions might be about.

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Episode 21: The reason why I titled this episode, the episode that got lost under the seat, is because I recorded one and I was putting it in my recorder, because I like to record in my car, and it fell between my seat, underneath the glider and underneath the carpet, probably there forever. Afterwards, I sort of became the observer and just stepped back and did not really freak out or react, but just kinda laughed about it. I think what I was being taught here is just to let it go, that things always work themselves out, and we don’t necessarily know why that we’re experiencing whatever is going on, but if we can just step back and become aware and say, Okay, everything is going to work out.

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•    I guess to be shown signs or messages or however you hear your intuition, God universe, whatever you might want to call it. However you receive that. Then you can ask for more guidance, and one way that I’ve found that I get more guidance is just by having meditation or prayer and asking for help. (4:42)

•   Actually, what that’s about is following your illuminated path, your guidance, your bliss, what makes you happy, what you’re feeling at peace about. It’s going in that direction, and then realizing that you don’t really need outside things, you don’t need necessarily outside advice to make big decisions. (7:13)

•   So, I just flat out ask. I want a divine direct message on what I should do. And then I went to a party the next day at my friend’s house, and she just looked at at me, and it was like a few hours into the party, we were in the pool, and then she looked at me, and she was like, Victoria, I had a dream about you last night. And I was like, Oh, you did. And she’s like, Yeah. I had a dream that you had your book called You are the magic pill, and you were doing a podcast. (8:47)

•   That was like the ego or my old story popping into my mind, taking control of me, and I was just like, I can’t do it, I can’t. And I just started crying, I was crying so hard, like ugly cry, you wouldn’t even believe it. I just kept crying, I don’t know how to explain to you, I don’t know if you’ve ever felt like that, but it was just like my whole body was just overtaken by fear and just lack of belief for myself. (10:30)

•   I had to let go and just let the inspiration flow through me and let the message come through me, and so that’s what I did, and I ended up recording 10 episodes and one night I stayed up like all night. So I’m just here to tell you, if you are on a journey and you feel like your path really isn’t illuminated, you feel like you don’t know what direction you want to go in, just be still and listen and take control of your thoughts and listen to your heart, and tap within to that power within you. (13:24)

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